$ex Appeal
Wise folk used to say that beauty lies within the eye of the beholder. Some folk are considered attractive by their counterparts for obvious reasons. It is so easy to admire a woman who dons a flawless smile and curvaceous body. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to realize that such an individual would be adored by the masses. Interestingly enough, there has never been a general rule of thumb regarding Sex Appeal.
I have my own personal list of unique qualities that I find extremely sexy... above and beyond the obvious characteristics. For example, I am a sucker for a woman who possesses a confident swagger. I've observed women who possess 'average' beauty and extra-ordinary 'flavor'. The swagger that these types of women possess often elevates them to a new stratosphere of SEXY. You've seen her yourself I'm sure. She enters a venue with the poise and confidence of a wealthy hostess. She makes brief eye contact with everyone who dares stare. She knows exactly when to re-gloss her lips and of course "her lip gloss be poppin". She makes you take notice even if you don't really intend to. She's hott.
By far, one of the sexiest aspects of a woman (in my opinion) is her wardrobe. I love a versatile woman. By versatile, I mean the type of woman who can wear a nice wedge heel, strappy sandal, peep toe pump, loafer, and also knows how to choose the perfect retro sneaker for those ultra casual outfits. Please don't be misinformed, sex appeal, has absolutely nothing to do with the dollar amount spent on an ensemble nor the designer who manufactured the garment. Rather and instead it has everything to do with a woman's ability to tie an outfit together, regardless of whether it is Juicy Couture or Target. A woman's ability to make whatever she wears look jazzy is sex appeal in all of its splendor.
I also love a woman with a 'Naomi Campbell' strut. You've seen Beyonce' do it in her videos. C'mon admit it, that's a powerful tool. It's perfect for tantalizing men and pissing other women off. Ladies, if you don't have 'the strut' down pat yet, its prime time for you to start brushing up on your strut game. And perhaps this next one is a bit dated but I'm still a huge fan of the perfect 'bow-legged' stance. Something about the way a woman strides across a well populated room is alluring to me. The walk/stance combo will send my blood pressure through the roof.
Some of my miscellaneous sexy-izms include but are not limited to those women who have mastered the art of licking their lips in a sultry yet non pretentious manner. I also admire women with cute dimples and/or parentheses (the little indentations that form in the corner of her mouth when she smiles), nice toes, and a mean hairstyle (length is irrelevant). That's my take on the topic. What do you find sexy about your counterparts?
Corey R.
