25 Aug - WOD

Valuable - having qualities worthy of respect, admiration, or esteem: a valuable friend.

Good morning brothers and sisters. Do you know what it means to value another individual? Some of us are valued by our friends. Likewise, some of us have friends who are valuable to us. We value their opinion, perception, advice, and insight. On the flip side, some of us are affiliated with individuals who (due to some underlying set of circumstances) are unable to fully comprehend our worth. Have you ever brought a concern to the attention of a friend only to be rebuked? Have you ever heard these words: "I don't appreciate having you question my actions; I'm grown"? If you have heard similar words retorted from the mouth of a friend, you need to understand that there is a definite problem. You see... when an individual truly values your friendship, they don't react overly defensive when required to address your concerns. In fact, true friends usually feel obliged to relieve any worries or uncertainties that may plague other friends. If a person you consider to be a friend shuns your concerns, you need to be clear that they are essentially showing you that your uneasiness is of no concern to them. Whether the individual feels that your concerns are warranted or not, a genuine friend should take the time to ensure that you reach a certain level of comfort with the addressed issue(s). If the people you value most don't seem to reciprocate that notion, ‘CHECK EM’. Today, I challenge you to realize your own self-worth. Raise the bar to require your friends to treat you like the valuable asset that you are. Have a wonderful weekend. Be blessed.

Corey R.