Have you ever paid close attention to the laws of attraction? I have. One thing that has been consistent throughout my observations is the majority of the time, the person we are most attracted to is usually attracted to someone else. What is equally as fascinating is the fact that there is often some random individual who thinks the world of us; yet we don't reciprocate their affinity.
Here is a perfect example of the laws of attraction in action:
Kyle a very popular marketing executive has a thang for his colleague Nancy whose intelligent, smart, sexy, confident, and goal oriented. Nancy doesn't like Kyle "like that" though. You see she's in pursuit of John. John lives in a roomy condo over looking the downtown Harbor. John likes Katherine, Tina and Nancy but he loves Chrissy. Chrissy comes from a wealthy family, drives a Porsche, works an average of 16 hours a week, and spends the rest of her time trying to impress an unemployed, under-achiever named Dexter. Dexter likes Chrissy's fashion savvy and he thinks she's cool but he doesn't like her "like that" because he'd much rather spend time with the boys. Oh by the way, Dexter is sweet on Jeremy. Ain't life funny?
Personally, I recall an occasion where I sought the attention of a particular female acquaintance who didn't share my enthusiasm for getting to know one another. I admit that in that instance I questioned whether I lacked the special STUFF required to woo the object of my affection. I soon came to terms with the fact that I could have done one handed cart wheels while wearing florescent boxer briefs in the midst of a snow storm and still never have gained her attention in the manner I wanted it. That's the nature of the laws of attraction.
If we live long enough, most of us will get burned by these laws. Let's face it, at some point we'll be smitten by someone who plain and simply will not like us "like that". What's more important is that we understand No MATTER WHAT... we are not to blame. Spend less time seeking validation from others and more time concentrating on liking yourself. Understand that its the loss of that individual who passed you over; not your own. For the record... I like you like that. Be blessed.
Corey R.
5 comments:
I really enjoyed ur blog!I just told my best friend that our new quote for '08 is "Never make someone ur priority while u remain their option". We must all stop and put ourselves FIRST at all times. She hadn't been doing that. She just found out her husband had an affair w/his co-worker and it devastated her to her core. She never imagined that would happen. She thought she had a good, solid marriage. Now that she knows the truth, she is trying to find her way and put herself and her feelings first. She is very attracted to a wonderful man that is pretty much off limits. She definately "likes him like that" but she is realizing that its not going to happen with them. I also keep reminding her that just because she "likes him like that, she can't make him "like her like that". I suppose it's definately the laws of attraction playing out! She just had to tell another guy that she met on New Years eve to beat it bc she DID NOT "like him like that".I also keep reminding her that she is a star and although her husband betrayed her, she is not 2 blame bc anyone would be LUCKY 2 have her! So, I think I have convinced her 2 take all of her "wonderfullness" and share it with someone who appreciates her and what she has to offer... and most importantly, get with someone who "likes her like that"! Hopefully she and the guy she's attracted 2 now can still remain good friend bc she said she will always love him. Thanks for sharing ur insite. It was right on time!
I love that quote. I'm gonna use it!
Thanks for the advice. It's just too bad to want a thing and not be allowed it. Dang.
Luv,
that's a great story, but I have to tell you that you have it all wrong. The true Law of attraction is really about "what you put out is what you get back". If you have read the Secret, or Think and Grow Rich, the law of attraction is about attracting the things you want in your life, You get what you think about, whether wanted or unwanted. The Law of Attraction is neutral, if you want to get biblical..."As a man thinks in his heart, so is he." Proverbs 23:7
what you are describing sounds more like a misguided Law of Attraction, when you want the one, who wants another, who wants another, but you do not want the one who wants you, you are operating on something more like greed, or self destruction.
I guess I have been somewhat lucky I have always been attracted to the one(s) who have been attracted to me, never been one to chase to, always let them come to me. Now this may not always make for the most attractive, most popular, or the one that tops on everyones list, but is does make for mutual attraction.
Here is a better example of the Law of Attraction:
When I graduated college I knew that I did not want to rent, I wanted to buy a house, a multi-unit rental property to be exact, that was all I thought about, everyday, everynight, I went to open houses, I looked through the paper, I searched online, I called Real Estate Agents, one of the agents that I met took me out to see some properties, they were too expensive, they needed too much work, they were in the wrong neighborhoods, then he told me that he had a property himself, that he and his business partner wanted to sell. Initially he thought that because it was only a duplex, and both units were currently rented, he did not think it would be a good fit. But he decided to show it to me, as it happens this property was in the perfect neighborhood, priced right, and one of the tenents was on his way out, so I got my first property a duplex....the real Law of Attraction
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I use to like someone like that, but after being rejected I made a painful decision to move on with my life and not waste another moment on that brotha.
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