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The past few weeks of my life have been resoundingly peaceful and serene. You're probably wondering what spawned this new found euphoric state, right? Well, if I had to pin-point the single most influential factor, I would attribute the change to an attitudinal adjustment that I implemented. One day about 6 weeks ago, my workplace morale hit an all time low. That was the same day I decided to conduct a little experiment. I decided to commit for 1 month to replacing my frustration filled defeatist mindset with thoughts akin to those of a champion. I determined within myself that I was capable of performing at a far superior level on my job. The results have been fascinating. Almost instantly, I became more efficient; able to complete more tasks during an 8 hour work day. This has yielded huge dividends as it translates into me being able to leave the office at a decent hour in the evenings. I've been nearly 40% more productive and less than half as stressed over the past month. Hence, I feel more refreshed during the day and I rest better in the evenings.
The positive turn of events at my workplace has prompted me to take an introspective look at other areas of my life as well. For instance, I feel that maybe an attitudinal alignment might also contribute a healthier courtship. I realize that harping on the cons of past relationships has ultimately contributed to the demise of those encounters. Therefore, I've implemented an additional self-imposed challenge; to divert my attention away from the cons and focus more energy on the positive aspects of my next romantic endeavor. I am curious to see if this approach helps yield better results. Some folk believe that our lives mirror our thoughts. I can't say for certain whether that statement is 100 percent accurate. One thing is for sure... I'd hate to be a life long pessimist only to find out on my deathbed that I had the ability to do great things simply by altering my perception as it applied to my own reality. Just the thought of that possibility alone makes me want to start formulating non-stop positive thoughts. I challenge you to start looking at your cup as "half full" for the next 30 days. I sincerely believe you'll reap positive benefits from doing so. I dare you to prove me wrong. Be Blessed.
Corey R.
6 comments:
Luv,
Great post. I believe that your perception (in most cases) does direct your life and overall results. I don't always practice what I believe, but when I do and put forth that positive effort, it works for me. Kudos to you for recognizing that idea and adjusting yourself accordingly. Hopefully we will all start to do this.
What up Luv,
I believe that your perception on life situations past and present directly affect your life in the present. Steven Covey talks about this in his book, "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" in a phrase he calls a "paradigm shift." I believe you can have a shift of thought based on past interactions that effect your decisions in the present. Continue to accentuate the positive and more positive will come into your life! You stated in your blog that, and I quote: "Some folk believe that our lives mirror our thoughts." I am a believer of this idea and I challenge you to prove otherwise.
P.S. not only try not to harp on the cons of past relationships, but also try not to harp on what you perceive as cons or flaws in a persons personality, and try to accept them for exactly who they are.
JJ
First of all let me welcome you back to reality when you’re dealing with LIFE. Its funny how life has a way of knocking you down to your lowest point before you realize a change is mandatory and it sounds like that’s what you describe. As a friend, I hope when we talk I have spoken/planted a positive seed into your life as I wish you nothing but the best. I’m a true believer of the quote “Watch your thoughts for they become words. Watch your words, for they become actions. Watch your actions, for they become habits. Watch your habits, for they become your character. Watch your character, for it becomes your destiny.” I challenge you to continue to look at your entire life from this perspective and I guarantee you will experience a positive outcome. Like all your true friends, I have your back BLACK MAN so do what’s necessary to experience all that life has to offer.
Good for you! Your attitude towards life determines life's attitude towards you.
You are right on so many levels! A positive attitute usually yields positive results. As a person who always tries to focus on the positives in life and in people, I feel it is most important to live your "best life". Having a positive outlook and believing that you can accomplish anything you put your mind to is the cornerstone for advancing in all aspects of your life- be it at work and in your personal relationships (romance, family and friends). It boils down to the basic lessons in life- always believe in yourself and your self worth, find the good in yourself and in others, treat people like you want to be treated, love people like you want to be loved, etc., etc., and if at first you don't succeed get up, dust yourself off and try again! Last but not least- don't sweat the small stuff because life is too short! Believing and implementing those positive thoughts and your cup will be full in no time! :-)
Corey I shared this with so many. YOU are an inspiration
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