9 Nov - WOD

"Shall we dance? - Part 1"

I have long since drawn a parallel between ballroom dancing and acceptable male vs. female interaction. Today's WOD will hopefully depict (for my brothers) the similarities between the two. I conducted a little research to support my theory and I found this list of dance tips and etiquette that should prove helpful for any gentleman.

Dance Etiquette Tip 1. Hold her hand and lead her onto the dance floor. Don't grip her hand, and don't use her as your bumper at ANY time. This means while walking on & off the floor, and especially while you're dancing!

C-Luv Parallel - Men who are blessed to walk hand in hand with a special woman have been presented with a precious gift. In honoring your Queen, you need to be mindful of valuing her personal space. You are not authorized to make space invasions.

DET2. Lead her off the dance floor, and return her to where you found her. She will be so surprised at these few moments of courtesy, she will remember you.

CLP - Fellas, you will eventually come to terms with the idea that even though she did not turn out to be your soul mate; it is still your responsibility to ensure that upon your departure from that women's life, you leave her in an equal or better position than when you entered into her life. Good men should build not destroy.

DET3. Lead her, move her, it's OK.

CLP - Gentlemen, in order for a true Queen to follow your lead; you must first prove yourself to be a worthy King.

DET4. Don't grip her shoulder blade. That's not what it was made for.

CLP - Give her room to flow freely. She knows who she is as well as whose she is. Real men don't have to keep their woman on lock down.

DET5. While she's doing a turn, wait until you see the white's of her eyes before you bring down her arm. She's vulnerable while turning.

CLP - It's imperative to provide a sense of security for the special woman in your life. Let her know that you're durable enough to support her even when she feels most vulnerable.

DET6. Do not EVER compare her to the instructor. Your instructor can follow because she's a professional.

CLP - Each woman is her own person. Comparing your woman to a former love interest is never a good look. Appreciate her uniqueness. Applaud her talents. Accept her imperfections. She’s likely had to do the same for you.

DET7. The lady ALWAYS determines how close you get. You may not get another dance with her if you insist on body contact.

CLP - Reflect back to your drivers education course. Keep your hands in 10 o'clock and 2 o’clock formation until you get accustomed to driving such a luxury vehicle. Always maintain a safe trailing distance. You never know when you will be required to slam on your brakes. Seriously though, being a good leader means first understanding how to follow. She’ll let you know when it’s okay to encroach. Wait for her signal.

DET8. You are responsible for the lady's safety. Do not perform a move that sends her into the wall or into another couple. Ladies' heels are very sharp, no one wants to be stepped on or bumped into.

CLP - Bruh, it's your duty to make that woman feel secure at all times. Women shoulder the weight of the world; most of the time. The last thing she should ever have to wonder is whether she's secure in your arms. (figuratively and literally)

Now, without further ado… “separate, bring it back… now lemme see U do the Luv slide”. I’ll be back to holla at my ladies tomorrow. Be blessed.

Corey R.